Sex is far beyond simply penetrative sex. You can also find pleasure and rock your partner’s world by trying things out you’ve never tried before. All you need is some creativity and boldness. It can be nerve-wracking. But confidence itself is the most erotic item in your arsenal. No two people are alike, and this is also true in the bedroom. You and your partner feel pleasure in different ways and are unlikely to be the same as others. Some people may prefer normal vanilla sex, while others want a bit of excitement. If you’re looking to spice up you and your partner’s sex lives, then lingerie and foreplay sex toys might be what you need.
Lingerie to Turn Him On
If you look for the definition of lingerie, it says that it’s a “woman’s underwear and nightclothes.” These ‘unmentionables’ are far more than undergarments. But the most important pieces of clothing to show off your physical assets. Confidence makes you sexy, whether you’re covered up or not. It is the ‘lingerie’ that most men would choose, in general.
But if you’re interested in a different way of flipping his switch, the perfect piece of lingerie can do it. By nature, men love to see women in all their naked glory. But every man has a lingerie preference, and it’s a huge turn-on if they see you in it. Whatever your man prefers, there’s a wide range of lingerie you can try to make them feel good and feel sexy about yourself.
Bras and Panties
Sometimes, a bra and panties are provocative enough to entice your man. If you got a matching set, that’s even better. Brazilian style panties are especially great with their high cut-away lace design. It leaves a bit of your backside exposed, making quite a sexy look that your man is sure to love. But sometimes, even just wearing tiny panties is enough to set your man’s crotch on fire.
Chemises
Satin and lace chemises are perfect for getting in touch with your femininity. They’re essentially lingerie meant for sleeping, so most styles are quite comfortable without paddings or wires. It’s also easy to wear a bra and panties under a chemise. There are various styles, such as having lace cups, detachable suspenders, or being completely transparent. Whichever style you choose, they’re great for accentuating your assets.
Corsets and Basques
Corsets and Basques are among the sexiest garments which a lot of men want women to wear. These are great at pushing men in and pushing women up by accentuating all their assets. Problem is that they can be rigid and uncomfortable to wear over a long time. But that is why you must find the right size and shape and what looks good on you.
Stockings and Garter Belts
Stockings and garter belts are the standard wear for spicing things up, particularly if you want raunchy sex. With all the different types, patterns, colors, and finishes that they come with, you’re sure to find one that complements both you and your partner’s preference. Many men just can’t help but be seduced by the peeking skin between the panties and the stockings.
Lingerie and Foreplay Sex Toys
Sex is great on its own, but it can be lackluster without the good old foreplay. It isn’t easy to have an amazing performance when you didn’t even warm up properly. If you ask a sex therapist, you’ll know that only thinking about the act and skipping foreplay frequently leads to a disastrous sex life. Foreplay isn’t really optional, and you can’t half-ass it either.
Truthfully, “foreplay” is not the right word because to say it like that means the actual play or the intercourse is the better part. But this isn’t true since most women can’t orgasm with only penetration. Clitoral play is necessary, which is better achieved by hand, oral, or the use of sex toys. After all, sex is all about pleasure, not just orgasm, and knowing what your partner wants is the key to achieving this.
Blindfolds
It might not seem so, but the brain is actually the strongest sex organ. Ultimately, getting aroused and pleasured is both mental and physical. One way to entice your imagination and fantasy is the use of blindfolds, which are perfect for building up anticipation. It’s ideal if your partner wants to try losing a bit of control during sex. So you can find out if blindfolds will make you or your partner more aroused by taking your time to explore.
Sex Pillows and Cushions
Foreplay can also get boring after a while, especially for long-term couples. In that case, you and your partner can level it up by trying out new positions. It will be perfect, too, if you have just the best sex pillows and cushions. For instance, a combination of wedge and ramp ensures you can try different moves with ease. It’s when you’ve fallen into routine sex that is the perfect time to change things up.
Feather Tickler and Paddle
Teasing is one part of foreplay that brings the excitement up by not knowing what comes next. If you and your partner like to exchange control during sex, then it’s a good idea to have a feather tickler. With these foreplay sex toys, you can enhance your sexual pleasure through gentle, teasing touches. You can make it even more exciting with a paddle to follow up the soft touches with a few consented slaps.
Sex Chair
You want to try this new foreplay position, but you don’t know how to get that angle. Well, you and your partner might like to try it out in a multifunction sex chair. Sex chairs and other supportive furniture are just the kind of thing that helps to spice up your sex life better than any other sex toy. They’re furniture that’s sure to provide ease and comfort in trying out all kinds of angles and even bondage.
Final Thoughts
Foreplay sex toys and lingerie are only some of the things you can use to up the ante of your sex lives. They’re not just for women, of course. Adultsmart also has some excellent mens sex toys that couples can use. Whether it is sex toys, sexy garments, or different sex positions. You can no doubt have enhanced sexual pleasure by understanding your desires.